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What makes a man attractive to women?

Almost all heterosexual women are looking for a man to be a “provider.” This means the man above all “protect her” provides for her, gives her nearly everything she wishes and desires for, keeps her happy, and fulfills most of her wishes. Women want different things from men depending on the stage of the relationship, but being a provider is nearly mandatory. Upon first meeting a man, women wish for other things than when in an ongoing relationship.

There are three essential things a man needs to attract a woman and make her interested in you. She wants reassurance about her time spent with you, she wants physical protection and safety, and she wants financial protection and security. I’ll try to break down each value for you, as well.
THE BIG THREE:

  1. Ego (aka “confidence”) / pride / assertiveness / hubris. 25% Attraction.

The most important quality women find attractive are men with very high self-esteem. Humility and modesty are massive turn-offs to women for whatever reason, if not the biggest turn-offs of all. A man ought to hide any insecurities and flaws he may have and only display great pride and attitude about oneself if he hopes to get a woman’s positive attention. This also includes being assertive and vocal about what you want, as well.

  1. Height / tallness / size / masculinity. 18% Attraction.

(Western) women ideally want a man who is at the very least 6′0″/183 cm tall and at least a medium weight for their height. No shorter than this common height, and not underweight or scrawny in weight or bulk, either. Women find both short and skinny men extremely unattractive. Women do not have any interest in a guy who is as physically “strong” as she is or is the same size or smaller than she is due to sexual dimorphism and women naturally being short, small, and physically weaker.

  1. Social status / success / importance / popularity / wealth. 17% Attraction.

Women wanted big men for physical safety for most human history and, in the modern era, like men who can provide financial protection. Women wish to a victorious, well-off, famous, influential, well-liked, or otherwise high social status. This assures her that any future problems or worries will be minimal, especially once children come into the picture. A poor, unsuccessful, or unpopular man is the third biggest turn-off to a woman out there.Other things matter to women too, but these are more long-term things designed to keep women in a relationship more than to attract her upon the first impression or on the first date or two.
Other, lesser essential traits:

  1. A fit athletic body, muscle tone, or great health. 8% Attraction.
  2. Good looks / handsome face. 7% Attraction.
  3. We have shared interests and hobbies that match her —6% Attraction.
  4. Good sense of humor / funny. 5% Attraction.
  5. Independence and not clingy or reliant on her. 5% Attraction.
  6. Responsible and mature. 4% Attraction.
  7. Self-interests, hobbies, and passions of his own. 2% Attraction.
  8. A (socially) decent person who has his peers’ approval. 2% Attraction.
  9. Intelligence / witty / articulate. 1% Attraction.

It may sound super-ironic – and it is – but most women want a man who is independent and successful to the point he doesn’t need or want a woman in his life (while still being heterosexual). The less he desires or needs a woman, the more attractive he comes off to other women. Often, these women will add very little value to the man’s already successful life, aside from children, which makes it so ironic.Any man with high self-esteem, height, and social status will be attractive to at least multiple women out there. And any confident, tall, successful man who also has a good sense of humor, a lot in common with her, is fit and healthy, is passionate about life, is good looking, is independent, is responsible and mature, and is morally acceptable, is guaranteed to attract a lot of women out there.

It may sound super-ironic – and it is – but most women want a man who is independent and successful to the point he doesn’t need or want a woman in his life (while still being heterosexual). The less he desires or needs a woman, the more attractive he comes off to other women. Often, these women will add very little value to the man’s already successful life, aside from children, which is what makes it so ironic.Any man with high self-esteem, height, and social status will be attractive to at least multiple women out there. And any confident, tall, successful man who also has a good sense of humor, a lot in common with her, is fit and healthy, is passionate about life, is good looking, is independent, is responsible and mature, and is morally good, is guaranteed to attract a lot of women out there.

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